Sex: Then and Now

In my late 20s now..and I've seen how the perception of sex has changed over the years that i've existed.
Then, sex was...
1) only after marriage, where the groom and bride waits in anticipation for the night of the wedding- like a deflowering session...a very big deal..
2) only happens when the guy and girl are at least confirmed a couple
3) less usage of contraceptives and sexual aphrodisiacs
4) its usually 1 to 1

Now, sex is...
1) i've heard of people doing it during lunch time, break time, office hours, weekdays..or just about whenever possible...
2) happens to almost any type of relationships- strangers, acquaintances, casual friends, close friends, even cousins..(yucks)
3) have you ever been to a sex shop? or have you checked out what's available in the pharmacy these days..i found a goddamn pack of Viagras available in the supermarket in Cambodia..!
4) well, my gay fren is a self confessed orgy participant..and it goes on and on the whole night..

I take it as just a metamorphosis of the definition of SEX now..and its getting weirder, more interesting, more intriguing..and also all the more confusing!!! You can have SEX now minus LOVE , but u can't have LOVE without SEX now.. and i quote my friend " Sex is like a sport without love"!

Here's a Little Reminder

I'm the purple bit and my friend is the white bit. Was a picture taken by a fren from the top of Angkor Wat. Just a reminder of how small we are indeed in this world.....so don't fret, don't overwork, don't be petty...for we live only a small portion of the world, AND when God look at us from way up there, we're just like ants!!!

Go Angkor!

Why you should do Cambodia...

1) Because Angkor Wat is there..one of the ancient wonders of the world. And i've SOOO conquered my fear of heights there!
2) The kids are charming..streetwise..and real entrepreneurs.
3) Flight from Malaysia (KUL) to Siem Reap is only RM400....by Air Asia of course. Terminal is located at the LCCT (Low Cost Carrier Terminal) much further from KLIA but there's an RM9 bus shuttle from KL Sentral...
4) I would choose Siem Reap over Las Vegas..anytime
5) Beer is USD0.60 per Angkor Draft!
6) Ta Prohm,one of the temples I visited there, was where Tomb Raider was shot..most breathtaking with the tree roots eating into the structure.
7) For a Cambodian experience, staying at the guesthouse is great..only USD15 for 3 in a room with air/cond, hot water, tv,...and ohwell, you won't be in the room most of the time..
8) For massage go-ers, you'll be happy to know that 1 hour foot reflexology is USD6 and a full body massage is USD10/hour...
10) Cambodia is still culturally intuned- check out the Apsara dance, that is performed nightly in certain locations and is inexpensive.

Definitely the spot to go for a trip away from the city..

Life is worth it ...

When do you get that best feeling in the world? ...

- When you listen to the best part of your most favourite song - with a good pair of headphones - volume up and eyes closed ...

- When you sink your teeth into something that is absolutely delicious that just melts gradually in your mouth ...

- When your dog jumps up to your bed, curl up in your arms, take a deep breath and give out a big sigh ...

- When you wake up next to the person you love ...

- When you know that there is someone out there who loves you so much and would do ANYTHING for you ...

Staying in Focus

Staying in Focus- This must be the hardest thing ever to do. Just think about it. We've been trying to stay in focus ever since we were tots. When we were children, we fought hard to ignore video games, cartoons and tried to concentrate on books (non-comic ones). When we're older, we try to fend off vices and temptations and focus on getting a degree. When we finally graduated, we try to stay focus on our career...

Seems like such a hard work when life's really short. Why do we wanna put ourselves through such painstaking task? Yah, sure..it's ONLY responsible to do the right and SENSIBLE thing...but we oughta let loose once a while to smell the roses! Go on a trip once a while, binge once a while..sleep late once a while....

Key to staying in focus is to reward yourself once a while.