Sex: Then and Now

In my late 20s now..and I've seen how the perception of sex has changed over the years that i've existed.
Then, sex was...
1) only after marriage, where the groom and bride waits in anticipation for the night of the wedding- like a deflowering session...a very big deal..
2) only happens when the guy and girl are at least confirmed a couple
3) less usage of contraceptives and sexual aphrodisiacs
4) its usually 1 to 1

Now, sex is...
1) i've heard of people doing it during lunch time, break time, office hours, weekdays..or just about whenever possible...
2) happens to almost any type of relationships- strangers, acquaintances, casual friends, close friends, even cousins..(yucks)
3) have you ever been to a sex shop? or have you checked out what's available in the pharmacy these days..i found a goddamn pack of Viagras available in the supermarket in Cambodia..!
4) well, my gay fren is a self confessed orgy participant..and it goes on and on the whole night..

I take it as just a metamorphosis of the definition of SEX now..and its getting weirder, more interesting, more intriguing..and also all the more confusing!!! You can have SEX now minus LOVE , but u can't have LOVE without SEX now.. and i quote my friend " Sex is like a sport without love"!