Friday, June 15, 2012
Every Friday morning Andrew sends me to my sister's place so that I can perform my motherly duties and give my mom a break while I work from home. You see, weekdays Bubu is with my mom coz he is having his 3 am feed still and my mom is just great like that. Anyways, at the end of the evening, I would be packing because Bubu goes home with us for the weekend. By the time we reach our condo, Andrew is armed with, my laptop, his bag, the bath tub, the bouncer, milk powder, sometimes grocery or diapers and one diaper bag....and me carrying Bubu. Today is the same, but as we reached the access door to our block, he suddenly exclaimed "I am so proud to be a dad!" .....armed with the works of coz. That somehow just made my day. We will look back on today and remember how much we love our Bubu...
Sunday, June 10, 2012
I recently went out on a wednesday night to publika to meet my friends... Without Bubu. You have no idea what a battle I had with myself! But it was time to be social again to keep myself sane. Not that I really needed it, ok so maybe I am in a little denial mode..but leaving my son at my sister's place weekdays is already killing me. I can't really bring myself to miss my evenings with him. Sigh. I never thought I would be like this, sometimes hugging him endlessly while he snoozes...Bubu, you are the new love in my life! Sorry Andrew, haha!
I actually really love our current home because it is small and compact, which makes cleaning super easy. Also because of my OCD tendencies, I think a big house will drive me nuts. Alas, with our little addition in the family and also so that he won't have a nomadic life( in the hope that mom n dad would stay with us), we recently bought a double story terrace house. It is pretty far but nowadays nothing is cheap and we can't expect great location without paying a lot. Well, at least we won't have toilet dilemmas anymore... My current place only has 1 bathroom..so we usually can't have too big a party, or we would rent the BBQ area by the pool. Hopefully with thenew place we could have more people coming over. We shall see.