Monday, September 29, 2008

Relationships are Fragile

Too many bad instances have happened over the past 2 months. First A got ditched by the wife-to-be, then H nearly brokeup with his LOML and now N and B are canceling their wedding (I hope not). Yar, relationships are fragile, people breakup over the silliest things and the slightest things.

All those years and time spent nurturing the relationship seems worthless and frivolous now.

All those times spent saying i-love-yous seems redundant now.

You can't really pinpoint a reason for this. Sometimes it could be just pent-up feelings or it could be just a nagging feeling that it's ust not going to work out. Sometimes it could just be a hunch that's just not worth pursuing.

Or it could be that you come to a point when you just want to give up. Sometimes it just take a bit of nudging, if u have a reliable friend. Sometimes all it takes is for another party to swallow his pride and do something about it.

NEVER GIVE UP. If you could spend years together, what is one minute to say Sorry....

4 comments:

Gallivanter said...

Like you said, it's not really breaking up over silly things, but that silly thing was probably THE LAST straw that breaks the camel's back.

Such is life.

Kyels said...

Relationships are FRAGILE. I do agree w/what you've written. Over the past weeks, I witness shedding of tears ( my good friends ); they are having problems w/their partners. For me when it comes to a r/s both has to give and take at the same time. Equilibrium has to exist in a r/s if not both will start biting each other over the smallest and silliest thing.

Well, it does not take much to own up and say sorry but some people just can't do it b/c of pride and ego. No?

atrica said...

agreed... relationship is fragile...

and, SHIT happens...

H said...

correction... i did break up... and got back together... i agree with wat you said... NEVER GIVE UP...

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