1) get a great new haircut
2) indulge le. now that you're only spending on yourself, you actually should splurge a bit. get a massage, pedicure, manicure apa saje...
3) meet lots and lots of friends and make new friends, at least you can kill time that would have been spent moping around
4) get a pet, and shower your love (and frustrations) on the fella
5) find new activities and hobbies, blogging ke, swimming ke, yoga ke, any form of exercise is GOOd activity
6) find solace in family time
7) write a book about your life and experiences...or blog aje
Not a good idea to get a gf/bf right now coz anyone that comes along, you're probably using him/her as a substitute. Do him/her a favour. There's no point to it coz you know it's gonna be over in 2-3 months time.
there's no way to not be upset by it, but you can try not to let it get into you so much. Know that you just need to get by this just like any other fellas who are going through a breakup. So you lost the one you loved the most, you don't necessarily CAN have a life with the one you love the most. Life's just unfair like that. Accept it and move on. Love hurts.....but love is not everything.