Thursday, September 18, 2008

What to do when you are on a breakup

Here are some suggestions:
1) get a great new haircut
2) indulge le. now that you're only spending on yourself, you actually should splurge a bit. get a massage, pedicure, manicure apa saje...
3) meet lots and lots of friends and make new friends, at least you can kill time that would have been spent moping around
4) get a pet, and shower your love (and frustrations) on the fella
5) find new activities and hobbies, blogging ke, swimming ke, yoga ke, any form of exercise is GOOd activity
6) find solace in family time
7) write a book about your life and experiences...or blog aje

Not a good idea to get a gf/bf right now coz anyone that comes along, you're probably using him/her as a substitute. Do him/her a favour. There's no point to it coz you know it's gonna be over in 2-3 months time.

there's no way to not be upset by it, but you can try not to let it get into you so much. Know that you just need to get by this just like any other fellas who are going through a breakup. So you lost the one you loved the most, you don't necessarily CAN have a life with the one you love the most. Life's just unfair like that. Accept it and move on. Love hurts.....but love is not everything.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

"get a great new haircut"
DONE. BALD since end 2005.

2) indulge le. now that you're only spending on yourself, you actually should splurge a bit. get a massage, pedicure, manicure apa saje...
DID. GYM 2006

3) meet lots and lots of friends and make new friends, at least you can kill time that would have been spent moping around
DONE. BLOG.

4) get a pet, and shower your love (and frustrations) on the fella
DONE. CHELVA. LOL.

5) find new activities and hobbies, blogging ke, swimming ke, yoga ke, any form of exercise is GOOd activity
DONE. GOLF.

6) find solace in family time
DONE.

7) write a book about your life and experiences...or blog aje
DONE.

As Bon Jovi said, "Its a bitch, but lifes a roller coaster ride, the ups and downs will make you scream sometimes, i'ts hard believing that the thrill is gone, but we got to go around again, so lets hold on!"

Anonymous said...

Anyone broke up recently?

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