Another self-reality check. Confess confess... Answer the questions with total honesty.
1) Do you control what your other half wears?
2) Do you make a fuss when your other half goes out partying with his/her friends?
3) Do you control who he/she goes out with? Does he/she needs to get approval from you first?
4) Does your bf/gf pay for everything?
5) Do you make your bf drive you everywhere no matter how inconvenient it is?
6) Do you pay the same amount of courtesy visits to his/her family as he/she does to your family?
7) Do you drag your bf to your shopping sprees even when you know he hates it and is obliging you and then make him pay for your loot at the mall?
8) Did he supplement the phone line to you, and he's paying your phone bills?
9) When was the last time you bought him/her anything?