Is it a girl thing to sit around and bitch about something or someone? Perhaps I don't show it enough but I really don't dig sitting at some fancy cafe talking bad about some other person. Don't see a point to it. And yet, many women enjoy that kinda thing. For me, it's an act of cowardice!
No. 1, if you dislike someone, just tell him/her off when he/she is pissing you off. Right at that moment. Don't dwell, and then make a fuss over it when you could have said something.
No. 2, talking bad about someone with the rest of the world, I mean, what the hell you wanna do that for? Get the whole world to agree? You need to get affirmation from the rest of the world?
No. 3, if you bitch so much about that person, that person obviously shouldn't matter in your life, so why should you care? Why are you getting so worked up over that one person who doesn't mean a thing in your life? Heck care.
No. 4, but if that person is actually a fren of yours, talk to him/her directly, give him/her brutal honesty of what you think. If he/she can't accept it then fine, at least you've said your piece. Don't be a coward. I'll rather be at some shabby kopitiam downing beer or kopi-o, or at some beat up mamak talking crap than be at some fancy Starbucks having a bitching session. There's more to life than this.
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Agreed. Everyone in some point of their lives bitched about someone else. I've been guilty of that too. The thing is, if we're brutally honest with everyone, chances are we'd be islands. We need to learn to accept someone's shortcomings and focus on their positives. :-)
eh gallivanter, that phrase 'brutal honesty' kinda stuck on my mind dammit...thanks to u!
I've know a few guys who like to bitch/whine too... so I don't think it's necessarily a girl thing...
Click on my name for a link to what I think about whining.
Ack, link didn't go though. Haven't done HTML in a long while.
Let's see if this works...
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