Monday, August 20, 2007

When You Can't Have It

Last night, I got a call again from this guy who recently started calling me up regularly ever since he heard i was attached. Bf was pissed but I did tell him that it's just a natural reaction from some guys. They want what they can't have it. And when they have it, they don't give a damn about it.

Just like that JRR Tolkien book. Before LOTR, nobody paid attention to that great masterpiece. When it hit the cinemas, now everyone wanna read that book.

Some people do it just because they are competitive. Or they wanna be the WINNER. The one who has it all. Winning a sought-after girlfriend or a trophy wife is very important for their portfolio or status. Phonies and fakes to the core.

Have you reacted the same way before?


Tine said...

Yeah I know what you mean. When you want them, they don't want you. But when you've found someone better, all of a sudden, they realise they can't lose you. And when you go back to them, they lose interest and treat you like dirt once more.

Such is human nature. Cruel irony, I call it.

kyels said...

Phonies are everywhere. And it seems that to some guys, having a drop dead girlfriend together with a Ferrari is everything. Especially for their status quo. I don't agree with this.

And you are so right, when they can't have something, they want it badly. When they manage to obtain it, they don't give a shit about it anymore.

Well, it's the same with Harry Potter; when I first read it in high school (mom bought books 1-4 as a present to me) my friends called me a kid, but when it became famous, they started buying the books. Ironic, isn't it?

belle said...

Jerks enough said.And very true they are everywhere
thing is when they saw u are happy they wonder how come u could survive without them.therefore they wanna remind u "hey im still here bug me bug me bug u "
Uberfy jerks..

Jemima said...

Tine has said it all.
I share her exact sentiments.

Jerks will always be jerks.

endroo G said...

The pissed-off bf was here.

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