It's OK to Be Selfish

Everyone of us is selfish to some level. No one's a SAINT. Who thinks of doing charity for themselves before doing something FOR themselves first? And yet, some people DO put others before themselves. But to what extent? What is your limit? There's really no measure to how selfish one can be. If only there was a scale to tell you yeah, this decision indicates you are NOT SELFISH, SELFISH, TOO SELFISH. Honestly, I don't see anything wrong about being selfish once in a while. Who's gonna think for you or put YOUR needs first if not your own self? I'm sorry but it's quite impossible to always be the saint who takes care of everyone. Quite frankly, that can be quite exhausting. I would make an exception to your loved ones...but even so with a limit. Just like some may say that he/she forgo-ed a relationship because the parents disapprove. Some people may say that he/she would have to be selfish because he/she would outlive the parents anyway. Bad thinking but it's the truth. Just being realistic here. You can't keep making decisions to please people around you. THink for yourself. Think of what You WANT. And WHAT YOU NEED. Sometimes, that's all that really matters.....