It's the Asian mentality to always 'jaga hati' orang, even when the person is downright wrong or pissing you off. We tend to 'tone down' what we want to really say or do because we're civilized and just don't want to create any chaos. At a point where our thoughts and speech are controlled to conform to society's needs. Sometimes it's better to just say what you need to say, scold if you have to, get angry if you have to, say your piece of mind. Nobody knows what's in your mind if you don't voice out.
I do believe we still have to jaga hati orang. But voice your opinion with tact and be careful what you say. Whatever you say reflects on you. You have to be responsible for what you say.
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