People make religion to be a big big question....in any relationship. I can't recall how many people or how many times people have asked me what religion my bf is. Even some of my girlfriends put religion as one of the criterias for finding a bf. Honestly, religion has never crossed my mind. I am afterall a free thinker. Why limit yourself unnecessarily. Having said that, some people do say that if you want to be committed to a relationship, this is one aspect that has to be straightened out. Straightened out meaning...to convert to whatever he/she believes in even if you don't believe in it or just LET IT BE. What's wrong with LET IT BE? well, i'll tell you, even if he/she doesn't mind, perhaps the family minds. So at the end of the day, maybe you HAVE to convert to whatever he/she is. But at what cost? Is the relationship really worth it? That's something you have to answer yourself. To me, religion is just like a pill to supplement a relationship, it's not supposed to burden the relationship. You don't hv to convert to what he/she believes in to show your love to him/her. I wouldn't give religion so much hold in the relationship. All that crap about needing to find someone who shares the same faith is crap. What if the guy shares the same faith as you but cheats on you anyway? Then WHAT? So, really, it's just a matter of faith...
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It's true. Religion ain't the essence of a relationship. Other values such as fidelity, respect, trust, etc are more important.
Religion should not be made a burden in a relationship.
i won even give a f if my boi is an atheist.i mean u love yr boi coz he is wat he is rite? NOTHING TO DO WIT RELIgion wat!..
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