A Question of Dignity

I have a friend who's about to embark on what may be to me an unnecessary risk. He's going on a trip to Thailand to meet up with this Thai girl. Whether it's a booty call or for fun's sake, I dunno. Whether she's looking to con him or hoping to get a husband out of this, i dunno.

All i know is, as a guy why put yourself through that. It is an act of desperation. If a girl tells you to bring a certain sum of money meant for both their expenses, that itself is wrong already. If the girl had any dignity, be it that she is poor, she would not ask another man to pay for her expenses. If the guy had any dignity, he wouldn't take advantage of the situation for fuck's sake of a girl who is probably taking a chance for a better hope.

Are men really so weak that they need to pay for sex? Whether he's paying for it or not, to actually go over and 'pau' another woman is paying for a 'service' no matter how u justify it. You may say that it's an act for a 'friend in need', but it still doesn't make it right.

I know many men do that. Whether the woman's a prostitute or not. Just are u that undignified to do that. Pay for companionship. Pay for sex. The consequences are probably just not worth all that.