Recently i've been hearing about this - taking care of yourself. I met this really independent and strong willed person who tells me that we really need to know how to take care of ourselves. TO her it's simply because if we don't take care of ourselves, or if we don't respect ourselves, no one will. No one will respect someone who doesnt love themselves.
ANd then i met someone who just didnt do just that. Yar, sure u have a problem. Guy problem/money problem etc. taking drugs and downing liquor will not solve that situation. Deal with it. Makes you look dumb to be destroying yourself because you dunno how to deal with your problems. Just be an adult and work it out.