Thursday, July 26, 2007

You and Your Exes

It's hard to remember how it felt before
Now I found the love of my life...
Passes things get more comfortable
Everything is going right
And after all the obstacles
It's good to see you now with someone else
And it's such a miracle that you and me are still good friends
After all that we've been through
I know we're cool- Cool (Gwen Stefani)

How many of you all actually remain friends with your exes? But well, first it really depends how it ended. Sometimes these exes become your best friends, because think about it, you have a history with these people, you shared maybe a brief or a long period of your life with them, he/she probably knows you inside out.

It's quite a different story when you have a current other half though. How then do you deal with the exes? Current other halfs might not understand why you're still close with your exes. But really there's nothing wrong to me anyways. What's wrong with being friends? Ultimately is to keep an open mind.


3 comments:

Tine said...

IMO, you can only be friends with an ex after a while of separation. Regardless of how it ended. This means that you have to be fully out of each other's lives, to move on, etc, before you can let each other back into your lives as friends again. Too early, and you risk whiplash. Happened to me anyway.

belle said...

one of my favourite..
thanks for reminding..

kyels said...

It's not wrong to be friends with the exes but it depends on how open that person is and like you said, it's also about how it ended.

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